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Review: 'Girls' - 'It's a Shame About Ray': Nothing bundt trouble

A tale of two dinner parties in which almost everything goes wrong

<p>Jemima Kirke and Chris O'Dowd in "Girls."</p>

Jemima Kirke and Chris O'Dowd in "Girls."

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"Someday, some fucking asshole is going to make a movie out of your life, and it's gonna be called, 'Hi, I'm Jessa, and I Destroy People's Lives 'Cause I'm Fucking Bored.'" -Thomas John

After last week's coke binge and ensuing shame spiral (which she at least was able to write an article about), Hannah winds up taking a backseat to the larger "Girls" ensemble in "It's a Shame About Ray." She gets to say goodbye to Elijah (because Andrew Rannells had to start filming "The New Normal") and continue to display her contempt for Marnie, but her dinner party mainly winds up facilitating stories about her guests, and the episode's biggest story takes place elsewhere that night.

For all that we talk about Hannah as a selfish, destructive force, she's got nothing on Jessa, who spent most of the first season causing explosions just for the hell of it. We've half-forgotten because she hasn't been around much so far this year, and because she's been in a stable — if wildly phony and unhealthy — relationship with Thomas John. But in "It's a Shame About Ray," her marriage ends as abruptly as it began, because Jessa can't help herself from turning dinner with his parents — well (if broadly) played by Griffin Dunne and Deborah Rush — into a 16-car pileup. It's not even that she doesn't lie when asked potentially embarrassing questions, but that she seems to go out of her way to give the answers that will most horrify her new in-laws, because it's simply what she does. (Thomas John, trying to smooth things over after Tessa confesses to a former heroin addiction: "You know, Jessa does her own hair.")

Similarly, "Girls" doesn't run away from all the unappealing aspects of Jessa — who generally lacks the wit and vulnerability that makes Hannah so often likable despite herself — but in both the ugly break-up scene and then her visit to Hannah's bathtub, we're reminded of how little pleasure she takes from all of this. This is who she is because it's always been who she is, but though she acts the smug, worldly adventurer, she has no idea what the hell she's doing and is pained by all of that. She ran into this ridiculous marriage as an overreaction to Kathryn Hahn's come-to-Jesus lecture, perhaps believing that if she acted the role of a contented adult, she'd start to feel like one. But instead, it's just another mess she's made, and while she walks away with a bit of cash, and having given Thomas John's parents plenty of ammunition to use against him at the next few decades of drunken family gatherings, it's clear in the final scene that she'd rather not have done this at all.

Hannah's party, meanwhile, starts out badly for all involved: Shoshanna is mortified to realize Ray essentially moved in with her without telling her, Hannah's mad at Marnie, Audrey's disgusted that her boyfriend's ex seems to be everywhere he is, and Charlie can't resist once again being sucked back into Marnie's orbit. (Which you know he will be again and again and again, despite his declaration on the rooftop, and the harsh language he throws at her when they're back in the apartment.)

The standout story for me was definitely Shoshanna and Ray. Zosia Mamet essentially acted her way into regular status for what was supposed to be a minor role, and though she hasn't had a lot to do so far this season, she and Alex Karpovsky were tremendous in that subway scene, where Shoshanna and Ray declared their love for each other at what was simultaneously the absolute worst and best time for it. Every other relationship on this show is dysfunction at the very best, and I like the idea that the one couple with a chance of real happiness with a minimum of drama is one where the two partners are so mismatched in age, ambition and temperament. A very nice moment in an episode where almost everyone else seemed to be going out of their way to hurt one another.

What did everybody else think?

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Alan Sepinwall has been reviewing television since the mid-'90s, first for Tony Soprano's hometown paper, The Star-Ledger, and now for HitFix. His new book, "The Revolution Was Televised," about the last 15 years of TV drama, is for sale at Amazon. He can be reached at sepinwall@hitfix.com

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    sal

    wow. Thanks for the early review

    February 3, 2013 at 12:15AM EST Reply to Comment
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      WeebeysPlasticFish The episode aired tonight (Saturday) because of the Super Bowl.

      February 3, 2013 at 4:26AM EST
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      srpad It has actually been available on On Demand since last weekend.

      February 3, 2013 at 10:34AM EST
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    M

    I thought for sure your intro was gonna be "as soon as my mustards receive sufficient accolades."

    Do you know if HBO is planning to release the episodes early again in a few weeks when the Oscars are on?

    February 3, 2013 at 12:28AM EST Reply to Comment
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      Brubarian I can't imagine they would. I mean, I know I would pre-empt watching any show I like in favor of the Super Bowl. But I would always choose a good series over an awards show.

      February 3, 2013 at 10:21AM EST
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      Slam "They're sweet, then they're spicy, then they're sweet again ... I don't know how she does it"

      February 5, 2013 at 12:24PM EST
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    Jim

    Lena Dunham just won the Directors Guild of America for directing the pilot.

    February 3, 2013 at 12:28AM EST Reply to Comment
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    PopzillaJoe

    I was wondering the same thing. Must be some sort of mistake, right? I felt very conflicted about reading it.

    February 3, 2013 at 12:30AM EST Reply to Comment
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      evolution1085 The episode's been available On Demand and on HBO Go since Monday/Tuesday because of, you know, that other thing that's happening on Sunday night... but the actual posting might have just been a glitch in Alan's autopost (he's used it before when he's been on vacation).

      February 3, 2013 at 1:01AM EST
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      dan The episode aired tonight on HBO. There was no mistake in Alan's posting. "Girls" and "Enlightened" both aired their Sunday episodes tonight and the episodes will reair tomorrow on HBO.

      -Daniel

      February 3, 2013 at 1:05AM EST
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      PopzillaJoe Spoke much too soon. HBO released them early bc of Superbowl.
      http://www.popzilla.net/archives/544

      February 3, 2013 at 1:54AM EST
    • Tv_talkback_profile

      PopzillaJoe Thanks guys, I missed that somehow.

      February 3, 2013 at 1:55AM EST
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    Tank

    I'm pretty much at the point where I'm fast-forwarding through every scene featuring the British chick. She is completely uninteresting. I don't care if her character lives or dies.

    February 3, 2013 at 12:36AM EST Reply to Comment
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      irene I thought this was her best episode ever. I didn't care for her previously, but I felt bad for her here.

      February 3, 2013 at 12:54AM EST
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      Jaxemer11 Got to agree with Irene. Have been completely uninterested in Jess before this episode, but I really liked her story here. Its good to see her character get some shape.

      February 3, 2013 at 1:30AM EST
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      Parker She almost had my sympathy....and then the snot rocket.

      February 3, 2013 at 6:43AM EST
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      JanieJones Watching Jessa is like viewing a car crash in slow motion, you can't help but look. I thought this episode added another dynamic to her character (Maybe).

      February 3, 2013 at 9:55AM EST
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    BosApollo

    Another great episode. Loved the line "Because, well, I'm a humanitarian!"

    February 3, 2013 at 12:58AM EST Reply to Comment
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    Stormshadow4life

    I really liked Shoshanna's part (but then again, I like everything she's done on the show)...
    But I mostly enjoyed Jessa's story and her breaking down in the tub with Hannah

    February 3, 2013 at 1:12AM EST Reply to Comment
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    Jaxemer11

    Fantastic episode. One of my favorites yet. Wonder if that is a result of not focusing on Hannah so much? I think it could be.

    February 3, 2013 at 1:28AM EST Reply to Comment
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    John R

    I'm an old man (64) and was deeply affected by the movie Amour, and the omnipresent recognition that time is running out. But Girls is the perfect antidote: it makes me SO glad I'm not young, if that's what young is.

    February 3, 2013 at 2:07AM EST Reply to Comment
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      bill great comment

      February 3, 2013 at 2:24AM EST
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      svetlana I loved your comment. I'm in my thirties and I always feel like time is running out. Watching this show makes me feel very old. This was my favorite jessa episode. Usually she's very full of herself and annoying but for once she showed real emotion and not bravado. There was a melancholy vibe to the bathtub scene that i loved.

      February 3, 2013 at 2:43AM EST
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      joel Watching this show makes me simultaneously nostalgic for the wackiness of my 20's (and that of my friends), glad I never have to return to my 20's again, and acutely aware of how my 20's wasn't really that different from my teens (except we were all, well most of us, paying our own bills).

      I've known a handful of girls like Jessa in my life. While I can't stand people like her, it's nice to see the other side of her. I can't really sympathize with her, but I understand her.

      February 5, 2013 at 1:34PM EST
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    John

    My humie...

    February 3, 2013 at 2:09AM EST Reply to Comment
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    Th

    February 3, 2013 at 2:36AM EST Reply to Comment
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    Wally

    When does Veep return?

    February 3, 2013 at 3:48AM EST Reply to Comment
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      Pete April

      February 3, 2013 at 3:07PM EST
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    Magnets

    "It's a Shame About Ray" is an album by the Lemonheads. Jesse Peretz, who directed this episode, played bass for the Lemonheads (though he left before that album).

    Coincidence?

    February 3, 2013 at 4:01AM EST Reply to Comment
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      KobraCola Definitely not, but thanks for the info! I'd heard of the album, but I definitely did not connect those two things.

      February 3, 2013 at 7:11PM EST
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    Jamie

    man that was masterful television making. Just such a great episode. I've always been a "like, but don't love" fan of Girls, but this episode was fantastic.

    February 3, 2013 at 7:32AM EST Reply to Comment
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      Meg Agreed. I've been a fan, but not totally loving the show until tonight. It was all so great. I especially liked Hannah sticking up for Marnie when Charlie was trashing her--that felt so real.

      February 3, 2013 at 10:17AM EST
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      Slam The most real part of the ep. was Hannah elbow deep in a bundt cake ... they should call this show "Cake"

      February 5, 2013 at 12:46PM EST
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    mstoke4

    Had the show ever established Ray as a loser with no prospects? And as 33? I feel like maybe Lena Dunham mistook what happened with that character in "Tiny Furniture" as something that happened on "Girls." It's happened to me a bunch of times when I think about this show.

    February 3, 2013 at 10:51AM EST Reply to Comment
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      S Well he was working at that coffee place so his life really wasn't trending upwards. And they had never stated his age but hearing 33 did feel like a shock but somewhat plausible.

      February 3, 2013 at 1:42PM EST
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      February 3, 2013 at 9:46PM EST
    • As I was much surprised about Ray being 33 as I was at Shoshanna being 21. I thought these girls were in their mid 20's. 21 is very young but ok.

      February 3, 2013 at 9:48PM EST
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      Rae in the "abortion" episode last season she said she was almost 22. plus shes still in school so its not a complete shock that shes so young. shes these peoples friends mostly due to the fact that shes jessas cousin. doubt they would have talked much if she werent related to Jessa

      February 4, 2013 at 5:01AM EST
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      irieagogo Ray's a loser with no prospects partly because he's in a crap music duo with Charlie, steals women's journals, reads them, (and is a part of reading them aloud in public at said crap music duo's show) and fondles women's underthings when they are out of their apartment.

      Just for starters.

      February 4, 2013 at 12:00PM EST
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      mstoke4 I mean that the show had not established Ray as somebody with nothing going for him. For one, he's the manager of a coffee house... at least it's a job, and at least he's in charge of people. He's also in a band, and every depiction of him in social situations gave him the air of being popular and well-liked. That he would literally have nowhere to go and nothing to do and no interests came from nowhere. That was my problem. I really like the guy, and I liked the scene, I just think it would've had more impact if he'd had more chance to develop as a character.

      February 4, 2013 at 5:46PM EST
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      joel I've known guys exactly like Ray. The reveal that he had nowhere to go actually makes sense. The guys like Ray I know hold their own in social situations by masking their awkwardness with humor and a weird form of charm. But they have a rough edge or two that keeps them at arm's length too, hence Ray doesn't really have anywhere to go. And with Shoshanna, why would he bother? Clearly he's totally smitten with her, to the extent he'll watch TV shows he'd otherwise hate on.

      Lena Dunham is displaying an incredible knack for sketching together extremely accurate portraits of rather complex personalities.

      February 5, 2013 at 1:40PM EST
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    Trilby

    Could someone please explain to me what's going on? How is Girls being re-capped everywhere as if it was on Saturday night and not Sunday night? That is not very nice to screw around like this HBO. I'm like- WHAT DAY IS THIS? Did I lose a day? Am I supposed to be at work?

    February 3, 2013 at 1:20PM EST Reply to Comment
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      S HBO has had it on-demand through HBO Go for the past week and it aired last night on HBO so that it wouldn't have to compete with the Super Bowl tonight.

      February 3, 2013 at 1:43PM EST
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    mccommas

    Less Hannah is always better. No wonder this seems to be this site's favorite episode this season

    February 3, 2013 at 6:34PM EST Reply to Comment
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      Vanessam i was wondering why this ep seemed so much better, and I think you've identified it! Now if only she could keep her top on for one whole episode.....

      February 5, 2013 at 12:48AM EST
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    Beekayz

    Gonna write about the new episode of Girls on twitter, just as soon as I have heroin practically coming out of my eye sockets #whatalansnotwriting

    February 4, 2013 at 3:36AM EST Reply to Comment
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      April What the hell do you mean? I hope that comment wasn't literal.

      February 13, 2013 at 10:23AM EST
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      Beekayz Oh I'm dead serious April.

      And I'll be doing it just as soon as Alan's the first brother in history to break into prison.

      February 13, 2013 at 5:55PM EST
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    Mark

    Why were Charlie and Audrey even there besides to help the plot?

    February 4, 2013 at 8:17AM EST Reply to Comment
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      Slam "BUTTPLUG"

      February 5, 2013 at 12:30PM EST
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    Mark

    We also had to get the obligatory Lena Dunham topless scene. I wish she had taken Jessa's advice and not gotten up. I understand how "brave" she must be, but I don't need to see this on a weekly basis.

    February 4, 2013 at 8:27AM EST Reply to Comment
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      rcade Hannah's breasts are like Kramer bursting through the door. We have to see the girls or it isn't Girls.

      February 5, 2013 at 9:51AM EST
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      Slam I simultaneously respect her for showing her unattractive naked body and yell at her to lose 30 lbs and put some damn clothes on ... but that's my issues ... and why this show is so different and great ... ps Pecans on a burrito ??

      February 5, 2013 at 12:33PM EST
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    ds

    Fourth para 'Tessa' should be Jessa.

    February 4, 2013 at 9:51AM EST Reply to Comment
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    SmartGirlBadTV

    I agree, after several episodes of watching Hannah and Marnie whine their way through awful decisions, I thought the handling of Jessa was the brightest part of the season so far. I thought that last week Hannah was perhaps "trying on" Jessa's personality - whereas this week showed it as something Jessa lives with all the time. She is always that awful. She is always, and unendearingly, dropping these bombs into her life. It was fascinating. Read more of my thoughts and my review here: http://www.smartgirlbadtv.com/?p=251

    February 4, 2013 at 10:01AM EST Reply to Comment
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    Dr. Gross

    Strong episode. I was nice to see Jessa drop her facade and reveal some real, human vulnerability. I thought Jemima Kirke did some particularly strong work while Chris O'Dowd was telling her off. You could see in her face that some of what he was saying was getting through and hurting her. She was just trying to hide it.

    February 4, 2013 at 10:14AM EST Reply to Comment
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      Slam She told him EXACTLY what's wrong with him, and he told her EXACTLY why she's screwed-up. They devastated each other. The greatest scene in this show.

      February 5, 2013 at 12:48PM EST
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    ronozer

    Has anyone figured out how long Jessa was married? Just curious about the timeline. I love this show, love Lena, love everything. Kinda glad to see Rammels go though. Want Adam back.

    February 4, 2013 at 10:25AM EST Reply to Comment
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    troopermsu

    My favorite episode of this series so far.

    February 4, 2013 at 10:49AM EST Reply to Comment
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    irieagogo

    Oh my gawd, Thomas-John's mom is Jerri Blank's stepmom! That explains a lot!

    February 4, 2013 at 11:53AM EST Reply to Comment
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    cc

    Dan - I know you're not doing regular writeups on Enlightened, but I'm curious if the last 2 episodes have changed your opinion of the show at all? The episode "Higher Power" focusing on Eli @ rehab especially I thought was a pretty damn amazing 1/2 hour of tv ... and the most recent one focusing back on Amy and Abaddon good as well, the show seems to be hitting its stride, IMO at least.

    February 4, 2013 at 12:25PM EST Reply to Comment
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    tim_masterson

    I really enjoyed the stuff with Ray and Shoshanna, who now may be my favorite TV couple since Pearlman and Daniels.

    I think what Jessa did was very disturbing. Leading up to the dinner, she was very passive-aggressive. She obviously didn't want to go. She made sure they were late. At the dinner, of course, she was trying to be confrontational. However, when they got back, it took an ugly turn to the abusive. First she hits Thomas John, then she throws his trophy toward him, smashing it. That's the type of thing that should land a person in jail for the night. Picture the same scene with the roles reversed.

    February 4, 2013 at 1:35PM EST Reply to Comment
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    JREinATL

    W/r/t the abrupt end of the TJ/Jessa marriage, I thought it was hilarious how Jessa thinks ending a marriage is just another break up. Her asking for $30K to "go away" was so naive (TJ leads us to believe he has millions as a result of being a recession "unicorn") that it makes me wonder whether they ever made their marriage legal.

    February 4, 2013 at 2:33PM EST Reply to Comment
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      Slam And she settles for $11,500 ... nice self-esteem

      February 5, 2013 at 12:40PM EST
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      Paul B I thought the same thing. That was an awfully low "severance package" from a finance big shot.

      February 10, 2013 at 1:06PM EST
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    Bill T.

    I think it's fitting that Shoshanna gets to be the only one in a happy relationship as she's the only "girl" who is not a horrible person. I am really enjoying this season despite the fact that I don't often laugh out loud at this 'comedy.' But I guess shows like LOUIE changed the definition of a half hour comedy.

    February 4, 2013 at 4:44PM EST Reply to Comment
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